Monday, December 15, 2008

The Left Has A Monopoly On Being “Right” Part I: What is gay?

Its dizzying trying to think of the vast number of issues that the left of America supports where any disagreement or noncompliance means you are some kind of bigoted, sexist, close-minded, intolerant, or even a stupid person. Its impossible to unravel all the layers of arguments and accusations just to get to the root of each issue. Ironically it is that very tactic that has closed the minds of those on the left. Unbelief in their views disqualifies any possible counter argument that you might have, not because your argument isn’t valid but instead because you are (to them) one of the previously mentioned labels and are not worth arguing with anymore. When you disagree, you will be shouted down ignored, dismissed, called names, or even threatened.
It is one of the great wonders of our time that a culture so paranoid of government takeover “big-brother” is in-fact that which they fear. They are a group where dissenting expels you from not only their group but also worse, from consideration. Worse still, we see conservatives kowtowing to these paranoid and misguided perspectives of humanity and politics. And we allow this without an answer back. Partly because we have no answers we have only our intuition or conscience and we sit by hoping someone might be able to give an answer… For the next couple weeks I plan to write about most of these issues and ask honest questions… This entry is about homosexuality…
I have had my share of college courses with anthropology, biology and zoology professors, all of which refuse to even discuss that evolution might not be correct. In fact my Anthropology professor started every new semester with the same tired speech “…evolution is fact any discussion otherwise is a waste of time…” This man defined Evolution as “genetic change through time”… it is upon that definition and the current beliefs of evolution that I come to my first question.
Putting aside whether or not homosexuality is moral or immoral for this and any further discussion, how can there be any homosexuals in the modern era? If they cannot reproduce and are in fact a minority in any given population what reproductive vehicle does the homosexual gene use to insure its expression in future generations?
If we are to assume that all men have evolved from a common ancestor and all varieties of physically visible attributes were within that ancestor’s DNA, including a homosexual gene why is it that red heads are predicted to be extinct by the year 2060 due to the increasingly reducing likelihood of two red heads reproducing yet homosexuals are in every generation and have yet to reproduce ever? Maybe because the homosexual gene doesn’t exist… That or Evolution is mistaken in the process of how traits are handed down by those who reproduce most effectively so they intern subtly change each generation by way of excluding those creatures who reproduce least effectively.
Whether or not anyone takes that argument seriously I can’t say I really care. However I cannot deny that I have seen young children display behavior that is more like the opposite sex than their physically expressed sex. That fact isn’t evidence to qualify homosexuality as much as it just proves that people are dynamic creatures and have as many varieties in their behavior as they do in their appearance. Further it raises another question for me.
Are some of these children young homosexuals in the making because of some unrealized innate desire for same sex relations or are they instead inclined to homosexual behavior because society says their behavior differences are explained better through their unrealized need for same sex relationships? If homosexuality is natural and innate, I’d imagine evidence of innate homosexuality would in fact manifest an even number of male homosexuals and female homosexuals. Yet the two populations are vastly disproportioned in numbers. Homosexual behavior is far more accepted between two women than two men in our culture, yet there are far more homosexual men than women. Still, we need to draw a distinction between behavior and proclivity. Regardless, this (to me) proves homosexuality proclivity is neither innate nor curbed by society.
Could one’s libido or sex-drive (characteristics far more prevalent in males than females) be the catalyst of homosexuality? I do not think it is any coincidence that men in general have (by far) a stronger libido. How many men are in prison for sex crimes compared to women? How is it that this correlation would not suggest that homosexuality is less about genetics and more about psychology? And if it is psychology why would there be favoritism of homosexual psychology over other psychological dispositions in regards to changing societies understandings of traditions? That might always remain unanswered.
In 1973 through political pressure (by a vote) the A.P.A. (American Psychiatric Association) declared homosexuality to no longer be a mental disorder of normal sexual deviation. Homosexuality was removed from the DSM (The Diagnosis Statistical Manual or Mental Disorders). That vote, from a psychological standpoint affirmed homosexuality as “normal” and “natural”. From that event any inquiry of homosexuals psychological origins became an admission of bigotry and hate, ending all discussion.


My disclaimer. I do not condone or agree with any past treatment of homosexuals by psychologist or anyone else for that matter. I believe all homosexuals are just as human and deserving to rights as any heterosexual. However, marriage is not a right. I most definitely believe that any child no matter what age who displays homosexual behavior should get only love from his family. Still, none of this means that there are no questions about homosexuality.

4 comments:

deni said...

I have nothing but anecdotal evidence here, but all of the GLBT's that I have counseled have had some sort of sexual abuse history in their background, which of course cannot possibly come to bear in their sexual partner choice. I know a lot will say this is not true, but I've seen it enough to wonder ...

Also, same sex friendships and "love" used to be considered a normal part of development - a stage that would be outgrown. No one teaches that anymore.

I think to bring some good arguments to the fore.

Demidog said...

Marriage is in fact a right. All humans have the right to engage in contracts.

The state has no authority to "impair the obligation of contract."

Just get the state out of marriage entirely. If you believe it is religious in nature, then God, not the state decides what constitutes a marriage.

State control cuts both ways. If the state is in charge then it can define marriage any way that it desires. Remove its authority and it has no ability to do so.

Kevin said...

I appreciate the thought put into your post - especially the disclaimer. Its not about hate, but truth.

Your point,"young homosexuals in the making" could be related to any child's behavior. We expect boys to like trucks and girls to like dolls. But when the opposite might be the case, that young child's tendencies, their likes and dislikes, have no bearing or confirmation of future sexual preference.

Parents guide each child's development based on their value systems - i.e. its wrong to steal, its right to be charitable.

Similarly a parent trains a child on sexual development. The parent observes behavior and guides the child to reinforce proper behavior or corrects to stop improper behavior. If a child acts in a manner more closely related to the actions of the opposite sex and a parent directs toward a heterosexual atmosphere the vast majority of children will follow the heterosexual path.

Conversely, if a group or society in general convinces parents to encourage the tendencies of a child acting in a manner associated with the opposite sex, wouldn't it be more likely their development could continue toward a homosexual lifestyle?

Still the best intentioned parental involvement can be trumped by external forces - peers or media for example. When the culture reinforces homosexual behavior,even those who display no tendencies can be moved along with the strong directional forces and pressures, especially for young confused and/or vulnerable people.

Reinforcing homosexual behavior is a great disservice to young people.

Heroic Fools said...

I response to Rick Fisk:
Marriage is not a right it is an institution defined by the society that endorses it and is ratified by the state that the society elects… It is not an endowment to be stolen or taken by force.